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Munakahat Dipandang dari Segi Biologi

Mengapa urin dijadikan sebagai indikator dalam tes kehamilan menggunakan  test pack?
Jawab : 
Pada saat ovum telah dibuahi oleh sperma (fase zygot), zygot akan mengalami penebalan pada dinding luar yang akan digunakan untuk melekatkan diri pada rahim dengan kuat dan akan menjadi plasenta. Di dalam dinding luar yang mengalami penebalan tersebut terkandung berbagai macam hormon termasuk hormon β-HCG. Hormon ini muncul pada saat masa awal kehamilan sampai usia kehamilan sekitar 3 bulan. Seperti yang kita tahu bahwa hormon mengalir melalui darah ke seluruh tubuh kita dan pastinya darah akan memasuki tahap filtrasi di ginjal untuk menyaring zat-zat yang tidak berguna lagi untuk dibuang bersama urin, termasuk hormon β-HCG. Oleh karena itu, tes kehamilan dapat dilakukan dengan tes urin saja, tanpa harus tes darah meskipun cara tersebut bisa dilakukan namun tidak praktis dan tidak efisien.


Apakah penggunaan antiseptik untuk kebersihan vagina diperbolehkan? Jawab : Penggunaan antiseptik untuk tuju…

Munakahat Dipandang dari Segi Psikologi

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Bekal untuk Menikah
            Pemahaman 1)Pemahaman tentang diri kita (wanita). Kita perlu memahami diri kita ini seperti apa, bagaimana sifat kita, atau dengan kata lain kita sudah mantap menemukan jati diri kita yang sesungguhnya. Kita juga perlu memahami kedudukan kita sebagai muslimah. Kita tidak hanya memikirkan tentang diri kita sendiri saat sudah menikah, tapi juga suami dan anak-anak kita. Di dalam sebuah keluarga wanita berperan sebagai manajer umum yang mengatur dari hal-hal besar sampai hal-hal yang mendetail sekalipun, seperti letak barang-barang tertentu, menyiapkan setelan baju untuk suami kita saat akan pergi ke kantor, dll. 2)Memahami arti pernikahan. Hal ini perlu didiskusikan dengan pasangan kita nanti. Perlu juga kita menanyakan apakah yang menjadi dorongan untuk menikah.

Munakahat Dipandang dari Segi Fiqih

Menikah bukanlah alasan secara emosional semata, namun perlu adanya perbaikan diri dan hal-hal lainnya untuk dapat terus mempertahankan pernikahan karena pernikahan adalah wadah untuk berjuang. Berikut adalah hal-hal penting yang saya dapatkan dari hasil Seminar Pra-Nikah yang dilaksanakan pada Kamis, 29 Juli 2010 bertempat di Fakultas MIPA Universitas Indonesia.  Hasil seminar ini saya rangkum dengan sedikit penambahan agar memperjelas dan mempertegas maksud dari materi di dalamnya. Hasil seminar ini akan saya bagi menjadi 3 bagian, yaitu Munakhahat dari segi fiqih, psikologi, dan biologis.
Manfaat Menikah : Saling menyadarkan. Misalnya saling menyadarkan tentang ibadah kepada Allah SWT dengan bahasa yang baik dan lemah lembut.Sebagai sunnah Rasul. “Siapa yang tidak mengikuti sunnahku (Rasulullah), maka dia bukan umatku.”Menjaga kemaluan. Dengan menikah, mencegah kita dari perbuatan zina. Jika, kita belum dapat   menikah, maka berpuasalah.Menciptakan keluarga sakinah, mawaddah, warahma…

Ayo Kita Shalat Tepat Waktu

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Ada satu hal yang sangat-sangat menyadarkan saya tentang pentingnya mengerjakan shalat tepat waktu. Mungkin jujur selama ini berusaha shalat tepat waktu karena bawaan dari teman yang setiap kali jika waktu shalat datang, entah betapa sibuknya kita, pasti dia selalu bilang "Ayo, shalat dulu, nanti lanjut lagi." Awalnya saya berpikir bahwa memang lebih baik shalat lebih dulu keburu malas tanpa saya tau arti sebenarnya dari mengapa kita harus shalat tepat waktu. Di satu sisi aku mengucapkan syukur Alhamdulillah karena selama ini teman dekatku adalah orang-orang yang selalu memiliki pengetahuan agama lebih daripadaku sehingga aku bisa belajar banyak dari mereka semua mulai dari hal yang kecil seperti pentingnya sabar. Meskipun belum semuanya bisa langsung diterapkan karena mungkin karena mungkin khilaf dan butuh proses tentunya. 
Back to the topic, mungkin kalian pernah mendengar tentang "melalaikan shalat". Mungkin sebagian besar orang akan mengira melalaikan shalat it…

Kunjungan ke PT Aetra

Habis pulang dari PT Aetra menjalani Capasity Building ...
Postingannya nanti ya, ^_^

WMI #3 on My Own ...

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@ Auditorium Gedung IX FIB UI

I'M on WMI DAY 1 (Senin, 12 Juli 2010) “Woooiii, sepi banget !!” Itulah kalimat pertama yang bisa terucap oleh bibirku saat pertama datang ke Auditorium Gedung M FISIP UI. Hahaha, lebay. Ya iyalah, masa yang dateng baru gue sama seorang anak sponsorship! Hmm, audit segede itu kosong, gelap, pengap, ckckc, ya ampun. Hal pertama yang dilakukan adalah duduk. Secara, lift jam 7 belum menyala, bagussss!! Dan audit yang mau dipake ada di lantai 4, bayangkan!
Satu tingkat gedung ke tingkat selanjutnya digabungkan oleh 2 tangga, makin maknyus aja ini. Back to the topic—setelah melepas desah ngosh-ngosh an dengan minum air putih, aku memutuskan untuk mengubek-ubek tuh auditorium. Setelah berkeliling ruangan, akhirnya aku menemukan pengatur AC, tombol lampu, dan pengatur TOA, dan juga berusaha menghapal ruangan-ruangan yang ada di samping auditorium karena ternyata semuanya terhubung ke ruang auditorium. Setelah itu, baru deh mucul teman-teman yang lain, dan mulai …

WMI #3 (Wajah Muslim Indonesia)

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(Duh lagi males pake B.Ing, pake B. Indonesia aja ah kali ini. Versi B.Ing nanti aja kalo inget, hahha..)






WMI chapter 3 kali ini mempersembahkan sebuah tema "Temukan Inspirasi dan Motivasi dalam Dunia Edukasi". Kegiatan yang berlangsung selama  3 hari ini menghadirkan seminar dengan topic yang berbeda-beda namun tetap dalam koridor pendidikan. Dalam acara ini hadir beberapa tokoh pembicara terkenal seperti pengarang novel “5 Menara” Ahmad Fuadi dan hadir pula Taufik Ismail dengan puisinya yang sangat menyentuh. Peserta yang hadir tidak hanya mahasiswa UI sendiri, namun ada juga yang hadir sebagai peserta umum, dan perwakilan dari universitas seperti ITB dan IPB. Mereka menginap lho

How to Wear Your Tie?

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I gave you several pictures in wearing ties. I got this picutre from other source of course. I've reminded after my father asking me how to wear a tie? My father doesn't wear tie when goes to office everyday, just in several occasion. I'll give 3 style of wearing tie, they are :










His Story of Life

That human ...

The First Korean Drama OST I played with Keyboard

Full House Korean Drama---Sha La La
This is the first song made me crazy on Asian Drama !!
Click the tittle "Full House Korean Drama---Sha La La" if u wanna know the song.
Full House OST.
Untill I played this song by Keyboard--music instrument.
I missed playing it again.
I remembered that time.....
I played this song with Keyboard in front of many my friends by accident!

There was

Desahan Lelah, Tak Tau Arah (Part 1)

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(Kali ini pake mother language ahh...)
(I want to use pink-purple font)


Hari ini ke UI
Ga ada Bikun
Ga ada Sekun
Jalan kaki
Capek
Tapi sehat
**duh gak jelas >>> "Desahan Lelah, Tak Tau Arah"


Akhirnya nonbar di laptop temen,
Asyik banyak kenalan baru,
dan sangat mudah mengakrabkan diri dengan mereka.
Alhamdulillah...
Mereka jg welcome dan baik2..
Ternyata kenalan baruku itu jg pada suka drama/film KOREA dan JEPANG.
Hahaha, malah ngobrol gituan tadi.
Rame euyy..
Saling sahut-menyahut,
sambung-menyambung,
hahaha
**tambah gak jelas dan gak penting


Setelah itu pulangg, dijemput di halte, langsung berangkat ke Mall.
Sekolah telah tiba!
Tunggu !! Bukan gue, adik gue lhoo
Udah bentar lagi masuk SMA.
Mall penuh!
Pada beli seragam semua, gerraaahhh
Banyak ibu2, adek2.
Pada nyoba baju di depan toko.
Eeeitttsss, tenang, nyobainnya di dobel kok, jgn berpikir macem2!
Pulang deh.


Pas ngeliat blog,
ada yang berkunjung dari Jepang !!
Senangnya ..
Entah kenapa aku senang.
Mungkin kar…

Remember “Red Date” on Calendar

Silly thing happened today. As usual, every Saturday I have English course. It was not as usual my mom always remind me for the English course, although I will always remember that. So, I reminded my mom.

“Mom, I have an English course today,” I said. And as I’ve guessed before, she forgot. “Oh My God, you have it, do you?” she said to me. “Hmm.”
Then I went to sleep for a while in a purpose, hhaha, ‘Hey, It’s already morning!’ Then. my Mom woke me up again and I took a bath. When I hear news from TV glancely, without seeing it, I heard : “Happy Isra Mi’raj”. Then my Mom took me to my course in a hurry. Besides, it was long time to wait for two trains passed by. Hmm, it was really hot outside, under the sun.
Finally, I had arrived. I step up and I felt something different. It was so dark, no light as usual. It was a little bit spooky, you know, and I hadn’t realized that no one there! Wow! What a brave girl I was! So, I went downstair and I just found 2 people there, only 2 people!! No rec…

And I Got One More Lesson

I want to post something, but I don't know what it is. Love? No. it's better not to say that.  Life? No. Movie summary? No. I'm in a little bit of boredom.
Okay, I just wanna tell about my participation in WMI 3. I'm an event committee and there are many experience I've got there. I'll make it simple. The benefits are :
I know the significance of prediction to make everything, even little part, perfect. We must be cautious on every details of an event, avoiding failure happened. I learned this from my friends in every meeting. I've been learning this, I try to apply it on my daily life, and also make my self be accostumed with it, so it will cross in my mind automatically when something needs detail occures. It's really important when you do something, notably relates to social network.It teaches me how to invite important people by massage, email, or calling. This event makes me be detail when I invite someone. First, you have to introduce yourself clearly,…

He Was Cool (그 놈은 멋있었다)

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Still remember with Song Seung-Hun having role as Jung-Suh in a popular Korean drama “Endless Love” ?? You will find him in this movie.

Marriage Simulator (結婚 シムレーター)

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Kekkon Shimureetaa (Marriage Simulator).

A romantic Japanese short movie roled by Takashi Kashiwabara, telling us about how to keep love with our partner in every problem we will face later. There was a couple who would marry soon, but when they had a consultation with their wedding agency, they found a new breakthrough called “Marriage Simulator”. This program analized—tried to predict their household life ahead based on their DNA, so what each couple would do in the prediction life based on each personality/character detected from DNA. This is the most interesting part.



Would they get marry soon or break up just because this marriage simulator? Find it out in link below : Kekkon Shimureetaa

My Little Bride (어린신부 / 어린 신부)

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Don’t you ever remember when your mother say that : “Hey. Don’t be lazy as a girl at your age! It’s enough age to get you marry.” Haha, perhaps you ever heard that. That’s happened to Beon, a first grade high school girl to get married with a fresh graduate man, Park Sang-Min. This because

When Evening Felt Down in UI

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I forget when I got this picture, but I just wanna share them. I like an evening day in UI. Really love it, especially when I saw "Rektorat" from "MUI" in the evening. It's great! And I also like the atmosphere when rain felt down in my faculty, Faculty of Engineering (Civil Eng). There are a lot of big trees around and when rain felt down, perhaps you will feel to be like in a town in Twilight Saga, hahaha...  I like it (with Rianti Cartwright's style, hha).
Here it is : a view of Rektorat from MUI

or this one 




**sorry for the blur picture, I took it with my old cellphone, just 1,5 MPixel, hehehe...

What If ??

What if someone seems to love me, but I don't love him, then actually I love someone who seems to love me--call him X--but I never realize that perhaps he saved the feeling before. Should I regret it? Is it love or just my regret to him (X) because previously I considered him just like a friend, then I realize the signs. Hmm, complicated. Sorry, it's the mellowest part. Both of them are the prefect guy for me. 
**bercandaaa....

What an Exhausting Day !

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Today, I've got a lot of things to do. This day is a final meeting for WMI Chapter 3. I have to distribute invitations to all faculties in my college, University of Indonesia, on foot! But it doesn't matter because I do this in the God's way, full of sincerity. I did this with my friend from Faculty of Physicology. 
As the fact, I just realize that the big part of faculties in UI, Depok, can be visited on foot in a not-so-far way because from Faculty of Law until Faculty of Engineering is actually near among them. WOW Amazing! Eventhough, I always thought it might be a long way to go. 
I was lucky this day. I haven't visited all faculties. Only several. I can visit Faculty of Law, Faculty of Physicology, and Faculty of Social and Politics. 3 faculties I've never visited since I was accepted in my college. Strange, huh?? But, It's not always like that, because I didn't have any business there. 
I thought three of them are prettier than my faculty--Faculty of En…

I'm On My Holiday...

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This holiday?? Hmm, not much what I've done. So what did I do??




Everyday, my father or my mom wake me up (It's funny I can't wake up by myself in a holiday like this. It's gonna be a different story if I have to wake up everyday to go to my college). Then, I pray for Subuh then I grab my laptop to start ON LINE! Hwohoww... Funny, isn't it?
Because I love Korean/Japanese movies/dramas very much, I start looking a good one then I watch it on Youtube. I don't want to buy hijacked VCD because it'll destroy my optical reader on laptop. Besides, it's a cheaper one. After that, I summarize it on my blog or make my blog prettier. 
Then I take a bath. When I'm bored, I read Japanese grammar, finding new grammar and vocabularies, or English grammar, because I make myself busy by attending an English course (TOEFL Preparation) once a week for 4 hours. There's a target I wanna reach. There is an annual scholarship (TOTAL Scholarship) from France allowing colleg…

JFへ いきませんか。

Now, this is a conversation between Mira and Rina.
A : ああ、ミラーさん、おはよう。 B : おはよう、リナさん。なんですか。 A : あのう、あした JFへ いきませんか。 B : JFですか。 A : はい、Japan Foundation. B : はい、いきましょう。JFで なにを しますか。 A : 日本語の本と まんがを かります。 B : まんだが すきですか。どんな アニメですか。 A : はい、そうです。コナンです。 B : このアニメは ゆうめいですね。JF まで どうやって いきますか。 A : Cililitanから TransJakartaに のります。 B : はい、わかりました。あのう、このこんばんは なにをしますか。 A : なにもしません。どうしてですか。 B : レストランで しょくじしませんか。 A : このかばんですか。あのう、タナシのドラマが あります。 B : タナシのドラマですか。毎日 みませんが、おもしろそうです。 A : そうでしか。ざんねんですね。このドラマは とっても おもしろくて、かわいです。タカシ カシワバラが います。ハンサムで、ゆうめいです。 B : ええ、また こんど みます。 A : JFへ いってから、なにをしますか。 B : えいがをみてことは どうですか。 A : おもしろそうでね。 B : じゃ、また あした。 A : じゃ、また。



Confusing ....

Something makes me quite suddenly then I think about my self and my old dream. There is no other word except "I want to get Monbu to go to Japan!" when I remind my dream. It's hard when you know that I'm still here, in Indenesia. When I realize that there will be long and hard way to get it. At least I stiil need to sacrifice for the next 3 years to get brilliant GPA and research to get my dream. I don't know how can i get it easily. It diturbed my mind for many times.
Perhaps, I'm afraid if I'll regret it someday. But, I need to stand up for it. I don't know what make me so curious on that. When I go to Japanese Embassay in Jakarta, the spirit to go Japan came on my mind. Then, when I saw the office for Visa, I said to my self : "When I can get into the room for making Visa to Japan?"
When I read my senior's blog living in Japan, then they always mentioned kind of plane they've taken on, it drove  me to the imaginary for "Will I …

Various Japanese Food !

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Hey, are you a Japanese food lover? I have just got a web address that give you various recipe of Japanese food. Perhaps, you have found that, but for those who haven't known before, you should follow this. 
The home-page preview of the website is on the top of this page. You can find out various Japanese food, the recipes, Japanese-eating culture--as you know, it's gonna be diffirent on the eating way for several foods, for instance sushi--or searching out Japanese restaurants. 
You can also sign up to get periodic-message for the latest recepe.  Hmm, yummy. I hope this is gonna be useful for you.
This is the link :
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How To Make Nice Rice??

Hey, I wanna share a nice tip for making oishii-gohan (nice rice). This recepe is a Japanese food-based.
We know that it’s really important to make delicious rice, indeed, we are living in the country where rice is the main food. If rice tastes good, of course other foods will go along with it.
We are about to start! Add rice with plenty of soft water, stir it, then discard the water. Add another plenty of soft water, then gently press down onto the rice to wash it. Do this way for about 3 or 4 times until the water doesn’t look too cloudy. Then, rinse it.To make fluffy rice, you need to add enough soft water to the rice, not hot/cold water. Have it soak in a bowl of soft water for about 30 minutes in summer or an hour in winter. (It depends on where you live).After that, discard the water thoroughly then cook the rice for 10-15 minutes. Don’t forget to keep lid stays on the pot while the rice is cooked.After the rice has been cooked, turn off the fire, keep the rice stands for 10 minut…

What I'm Thinking About ...

It's been 2,5 years since the last time I saw her when I was in XI grade. She is my Japanese Language teacher. She is pretty also. It was a hard moment when I realize that I must separate with her for a long time and for a far away place. The last word I got from her was "I'm sorry". That's it. It's because her sudden-decision had made all my friend, including me, were surprised and sad also. She must follow her husband in Soroako, Sulawesi, but that time was our first week to study Japanese again in XII grade.
Why does she look to be precious for me? I think because she had introduced me to Japanese Language untill I have been dreaming a big dream since I was in senior high school, going to Japan. I wanna go there someday, but I don't have any chance right now. Perhaps, this time isn't a right time for me. But. for the next 3 years, I'm gonna do my best to make my dream come true, eventhough I don't know what's God decision next.
Don't …

休み日 ですか。

Kono Yasumi do nothing.
Every day, write in blogs, watch TV and look of movies in Korea.
It is boring.

Now, today the Japanese friends I Wobeki.My friend is a vocational literature.
Three years, I studied Japanese at school.This year, did not I study Japanese.Forget bit from the Japanese, I study again.

Oh, we watch TV today.OVJ sounds like fun.

Temptation of Wolves a.k.a Love of Their Own (늑대의 유혹)

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みんあさん。こんばんは! はじめては 日本語で 書きます。でも、えい語で 書きます。 この えいがは おもしろそうですよ。 Youtubeで 見ましょう!。



Triangle Love... This movie is about love between Jung Han-Kyung (f), Ban Hae-Won (m), dan Jung Tae-Sung (m). Han-Kyung is older than Hae-Won and Tae-Sung. In an honour, Tae-Sung called Han-Kyung as "Nuna" (a call just like "Sister" in Korean Language), but Hae-Won never wanted to do so because he believed that Han-Kyung was gonna be his girl. 
As a matter of fact, Jung Tae-Sung and Jung Han-Kyung are brother-and-sister from different mother. Once, they've met when childhood, but never met again untill one day, accidentally, they met in a traditional market while Jung Tae-Sung was trying to escape from street-guys fighting. There, Tae-Sung finally met Han-Kyung who has just arrived from her previous small town. Even they are brother-and-sister, but Tae-Sung has a love more than just a love for his sister, Han-Kyung. It was a true love, not for a sister, but just like for a girlfriend.

Han-K…