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Step on 26th

Looking behind, I had endured bitterness, both from education and personal life, during my 25th that shape me as a different person today.
Some obvious acknowledgements:
- Time is limited. Pursue a fulfillment things in your life that makes you alive
- Sins do distant us apart from Allah. Such distant feeling just ruined every single thing
- Don't rely on people. Love and hate proportionally
- Pain does shape our personality because every new step requires a better you.
- Don't overthinking. Just do it simply

Where does a woman should foster her career?

I remember the time when the situation put me to imagine what would I be doing if I were a wife and mother. I obviously tried to look for future job which enable me having balance life between family and career. However, my deepest heart takes biggest side to family. What is more lovable matter other than to be with your loved ones? You would be willing sacrifice anything for family. 
I asked some of my friends. They told me: "Actually I want to be at home and to raise kids. I dont really too much concern about my future career even I know now I'm pursuing master degree."
"It does not matter for me to be at home raising kids, but my husband does not allow me to do so. He said that it is better for me to have also career for my own goods (expanding knowledge)."
And some of my friends (man) said: "I don't feel good seing my wife being at home whole the time. There should be the time for her broadening her mind with another activities. So I allow her to w…